Exploring The Most Common Sexual Fantasies

Posted on: 26 January 2023
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Having a sexual fantasy is one of the most common characteristics of being human. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you’re into, chances are even your most taboo fantasies are shared by thousands of people across the world. Here at Bed Domination, we’ve basically come across every fantasy you could ever think of, and we’re here to tell you it doesn’t matter how unique your fantasy is, you should never feel like your sexual preferences are anything less than a healthy way to have fun and express your inner-self.

When it comes to sexual fantasies, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. Everyday people are discovering weird and wonderful ways to explore their inner desires which means the possibilities are endless! That said, there are certain fantasies that are more common among people, and it can be beneficial to explore these fantasies in order to get a better understanding of your own sexual desires.

Threesomes or Group Sex

A staggering 70% of Brits have at least one sexual fantasy, and one of the most common of all of them is multi-partner sex. It’s not exactly difficult to imagine why the idea of being pleasured by two people is so appealing. The idea of being the center of attention from multiple people giving attention to every inch of your body is guaranteed to create a sensory overload. Threesomes, otherwise known as duo sex, commonly range from two women and one man, two men and one woman, however it can involve any combination of genders.

Group sex is basically just any sexual acts involving four or more people. Group sex can be incredibly exciting, and it can involve activities like oral sex, penetrative sex, and more. It’s important to remember to practice safe sex and be aware of everyone’s boundaries.

Light BDSM

Another common fantasy, which we find most people prefer to keep to themselves, is exploring the various acts within the world of BDSM. BDSM stands for bondage, dominance, submission, and masochism, and it’s a type of sexual play that involves power exchange, control, and physical stimulation. BDSM play covers a spectrum of activities that vary in pain and intensity depending on how far you want to take it. 

In terms of what most day to day people are comfortable with and what we commonly get requests for, light BDSM is the most popular. Light BDSM involves entry level intensity through spanking, gentle choking, hand/leg restraints, blindfolding and any other activities that allow couples to spice things up in the bedroom without pushing it too far.


Voyeurism is another common fantasy, and it involves observing someone else engaging in sexual activities. The satisfaction of voyeurism stems from the thrill and exhilaration of viewing the pleasure of others, and the idea of being a passive observer that allows you to feel a sense of connection and involvement. For many people, it is the perfect escape from everyday life for a few moments, allowing you to explore different fetishes, kinks, fantasies, and situations.

Exhibitionism & Public Sex

On the other end of the spectrum you have exhibitionism, which is basically the exact opposite of voyeurism. Exhibitionism is a form of self-expression that involves showing off your body and performing sexual activities in front of others, which can include flashing, streaking, or having sex in public. People enjoy exhibitionism because it gives them the freedom to express themselves in ways that they might not be able to in their everyday lives. Exhibitionism also allows individuals to explore new identities and push boundaries, which can be both liberating and empowering.

Public sex, a type of exhibitionism, can be an incredibly exciting and thrilling experience for many people. It can be a way to take risks and explore new sexual boundaries in a safe, consensual environment. People may be enticed by the idea of feeling uninhibited and free in a public space, as well as the thrill of doing something that is considered naughty or taboo. The added risk of being caught also adds to the thrill of the experience, as it can be a major turn-on for some. Public sex can also be a way to explore power dynamics and different roles, as the exhibitionist and voyeuristic aspects can be very exciting.

Role Play

Sexual roleplay is a type of consensual role-playing in which two or more partners act out various sexual scenarios, often with the goal of creating a more intimate connection between them. Examples of sexual roleplay scenarios include teacher/student, doctor/patient, boss/employee, stranger/stranger, and even pirate/captive. Roleplaying with escorts or your partner can include all sorts of activities, from consensual spanking, to dirty talk, to light bondage, to costuming and even role reversal. The sky's the limit, as long as all participants are comfortable and safe.

Looking To Explore Your Own Sexual Fantasy?

Exploring one's sexual fantasies can be a healthy part of self-discovery and it’s something that we highly recommend to anyone, no matter how shy or timid you are. Not only will it allow you to have a deeper understanding of your desires but it can help you to become more confident in your sexuality, which can lead to more enjoyable sexual experiences in general.

If you’ve got a specific sexual fantasy that you’ve only ever daydreamed about, then we’d love nothing more than to bring your deepest desires to life. We have a huge selection of the best fantasy escorts London has to offer, each of whom are professional London mistresses who are trained to help clients test their limits and explore their kinks in a safe and non-judgemental environment.