Mistresses Rank Their Favourite Kinks & Fetishes
Posted on: 29 April 2025
It's no secret that mistresses are the most open-minded and adventurous women on the planet. They offer just about every kinky service you can think of, and it should come as no surprise that even they have their favourites. Ever wondered what those might be?
Well, we asked all of our London dominatrixes to rank their favourite kinks and fetishes, and they certainly didn’t hold back!
1. Bondage (19% of the vote)
Bondage reigns supreme! The thrill of ropes, cuffs, restraints and the art of complete control is what gets our mistresses hot under the collar. It’s not just about immobilising a sub, it’s about turning them into a beautiful object of pleasure and power. The ritual, the patience, the anticipation... it’s a performance as much as a play session.
One of our mistresses, Ella, told us, "There is something delicious about seeing someone totally at your mercy, struggling beautifully but loving every second."
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2. Role Play (16% of the vote)
From ruthless CEOs to innocent schoolboys begging for forgiveness, our mistresses love getting into character. Role play lets them set the stage, run the show, and take you on a wild ride through your own fantasies. It’s the perfect combo of theatrical flair and kinky domination.
Fun fact: A recent survey found that nearly 70% of people have indulged in role play at least once!
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3. Foot Fetish (14% of the vote)
Feet lovers, rise up! Our mistresses love a good toe-licking, sole-kissing, high-heel-worshipping session. There’s something wickedly satisfying about watching someone melt at the mere sight of their feet. It’s sensual, slow, and incredibly intimate, not to mention it makes them feel like the queens they are.
Introducing her thoughts, Amber shared, "I adore foot worship sessions. There is such devotion involved, and it makes you feel like a true goddess."
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4. Strapon (11% of the vote)
Strap in and prepare to be taken for a ride. There’s something utterly electrifying about reversing the roles and seeing a submissive bend to your rhythm. For many mistresses, strapon play is a powerful tool of expression, part domination, part performance, and all about asserting control in the most physical way possible.
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5. Impact Play (9% of the vote)
Spanking, flogging, paddling... the rhythmic smack of impact play is music to many of our mistresses’ ears. It’s not just about inflicting pain, it’s about connection, timing, and the delicious slow build of anticipation. When done right, it’s like conducting an erotic symphony.
Aris chimed in, "I love the sound a good smack makes, and seeing the afterglow of a well-spanked bottom is just chef's kiss."
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6. Cock And Ball Torture (CBT) (7% of the vote)
CBT might sound intense, and it is, but our mistresses thrive on pushing limits. Whether it’s with clamps, squeezing, teasing, or outright punishment, this kink is all about control and surrender. For the mistress, it’s a display of power. For the sub? It’s absolute devotion.
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7. Humiliation (6% of the vote)
Nothing beats a bit of mind-play. Verbal degradation, name-calling, or just being made to feel deliciously small, humiliation is a thinking woman’s kink. For our mistresses, it’s about playing with your ego, twisting your desires, and watching you squirm with pleasure.
Interesting stat: Around 35% of BDSM enthusiasts cite humiliation as one of their top kinks.
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8. Latex (5% of the vote)
Is there anything more commanding than a woman in head-to-toe latex? Our mistresses adore the feel, the smell, the shine, it turns them into walking fantasies. Latex is about transformation and presentation, making every movement sleek, sensual, and spellbinding.
One of our ladies, Astrid, said, "Sliding into latex feels like transforming into another being entirely, more powerful, more dominant, more deliciously wicked."
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9. Chastity (4% of the vote)
It takes a special kind of woman to enjoy locking someone up, and our mistresses adore it. Chastity is all about denying pleasure and watching the build-up of desperation. The longer the wait, the sweeter the power. Mistresses love knowing they hold the key (literally and figuratively) to their sub’s release.
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10. Ball Busting (3% of the vote)
This one’s not for the faint-hearted, and that’s exactly why some of our more sadistic mistresses love it. Ball busting is raw, direct, and intensely thrilling. For the domme, there’s power in every kick, knee, or stomp. It’s about crossing lines with confidence and watching a sub take it all for her.
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11. Feminization (2% of the vote)
Turning a macho man into a pretty little thing? Yes, please. Feminization is a favourite among our creative queens who love playing with identity and gender. Dressing up, makeup, new names, and strict training, it’s all about transformation, obedience, and a beautiful mind shift.
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12. Poppers (2% of the vote)
While poppers might not be a kink on their own, many of our mistresses love the extra dimension they bring to sessions. They lower inhibitions, heighten sensations, and help submissives let go completely. When used safely, they’re a cheeky enhancement to all kinds of kinky fun.
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13. Trampling (1.5% of the vote)
There’s something incredibly satisfying about having someone underfoot, literally. Whether barefoot, in stilettos, or combat boots, trampling gives our mistresses a thrilling sense of dominance. It’s physical, in-your-face, and a serious rush of control.
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14. Nipple Torture (1.5% of the vote)
Nipples are tiny but mighty, and our mistresses know exactly how to make the most of them. Nipple torture is about precision and intensity, and it can be as subtle or as brutal as you like. From clamps to wax to pinches, it’s a delicious way to test limits.
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15. Smoking Fetish (1% of the vote)
A mistress with a cigarette in hand is pure power. The way she holds it, inhales slowly, and lets the smoke curl around her smile, it’s hypnotic. For those who crave visual seduction and sensory domination, smoking is a whole mood.
Ella revealed, "Holding a cigarette just so, teasing someone with every puff, it turns a simple act into pure seduction."
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16. Erotic Wrestling (1% of the vote)
Fancy getting pinned to the ground by a powerful beauty? Erotic wrestling is sweaty, intense, and a bit of cheeky fun. Our mistresses love the physicality, the struggle, and the thrill of complete domination, with a grin.
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17. Watersports (0.5% of the vote)
One of the more taboo kinks, watersports is not for everyone, but some mistresses love it for the sheer control and intimacy it brings. It’s personal, primal, and totally boundary-pushing. For the subs who crave total surrender, this is the ultimate act.
