Why You Shouldn't Use Oils In Your Next Pegging Session
14 October 2026

Why You Shouldn't Use Oils In Your Next Pegging Session

Whether you’re a client looking to be pegged or you’re one of our gorgeous strap-on escorts here at Bed Domination, it’s important to understand the risks of using oil. 

From latex condoms ripping to moisture creating infections, you must stay away from Vaseline, baby oil, mineral oil, motor oil, cooking oil, and in some cases, coconut oil. 

Some of them are self-explanatory, but for some of those examples, they can be the most convenient thing in the house that you believe can enhance your experience. 

Here, we are going to show you why oil is not good for an erotic pegging session, and give you some safer alternatives to use. 

Destroys silicone sex toys 

Silicone sex toys are some of the best-selling products on the market, with silicone dildos being the preferred choice for clients booking pegging sessions. 

These types of dildos are long-lasting, body-safe, and soft, making them an exceptional choice for longer and more pleasurable sessions, giving a client the session they were truly craving. 

When using a lubricant for your silicone toys, natural oils and oil-based products are to be avoided. 

Many people use coconut oil, baby oil, Vaseline, or body lotions as makeshift lubricants, and we get it; these products are found around the home and prove to be convenient in a time of need. 

Despite their convenience, oil products should not be used with Silicone toys for a whole host of reasons. 

They can damage the toy's surface, be incredibly difficult to wash off, trap bacteria, and destroy latex condoms.

How can I tell my silicone dildo has been ruined? 

Sticky surface - A healthy silicone dildo should feel smooth and soft. If it’s been damaged, the dildo will feel sticky even after being washed. 

A patchy surface - If the dildo looks cloudy, colourless, and dull, that can be a sign that it’s been damaged. 

Texture change - If you run your fingers around the dildo, swelling, rough patches, or soft and spongy patches are also things to be concerned about. 

A bad smell - After cleaning, if a dildo still has a bad smell, it means the silicone was unable to get rid of the bad odour. 

Instead of using natural oils, a water-based lubricant is your best bet for success in your pegging session.

If you need more advice on how to clean and maintain your toys, this guide has everything you need to know. 

Breaks down latex

Being clean and hygienic is at the forefront of everything our strap-on escorts do despite the down-and-dirty nature of the service. 

To keep up with this safe practice in the bedroom, many of our escorts will attach a latex condom to the end of the dildo, helping it go into the anus smoothly in a more hygienic way that’s much easier to clean once the session has finished. 

Using natural oils in your pegging session will destroy this safe practice because oils break down natural latex through a physical diffusion process. 

Natural latex is made up of long-chain rubber polymers that hold the material together. Small, non-polar oil molecules can slip in between these tight gaps in the chain, forcing the chain to fall apart and cause the latex to swell. 

A study reported by Healthline stated that oils can decrease a latex condom's efficacy by 90% in under 60 seconds. 

An escort will need to use these toys on multiple clients, and using natural oils will put a dildo out of service forever due to the lack of protection from the latex. 

A cause of infection 

Whether you’re being pegged as a man or a woman, oil-based products can directly and indirectly cause infections. 

If you’re a female client or one of our strap-on escorts who is receiving from the client, coconut oil can trap moisture in the vaginal canal, which can cause yeast overgrowth. 

If you’re a woman who is prone to yeast infections or bacterial vaginosis, you will face a higher risk if oil is used in a pegging session. 

The use of certain oil products like baby oil can increase rates of rectal infection, causing things like gonorrhea and chlamydia. 

Oils can cause microtears or irritation in the rectal lining, allowing pathogens to enter during a pegging service. 

As we mentioned earlier in the article, oils can destroy silicone toys, causing the material to degrade and become sticky. 

These damaged toys can become a home for bacteria, and if they’re repeatedly used, infections will continue to come back. 

Using oils can put one of our stunning strap-on escorts out of work, directly affecting their livelihood in the process if they become infected.

Causes stains 

Oil is hydrophobic, which means it repels water. This means oil will permanently penetrate fabric rather than sitting on top. 

If one of the gorgeous pegging models arrives in her best lingerie for the client, and oil is being used in the bedroom, this oil can permanently damage her underwear and bra, potentially meaning she will never be able to wear it again. 

Because of its water repulsion, oil can permanently damage bed sheets and pillowcases, sometimes creating dark, oily spots. 

To try to remove oil stains, press down a dry paper towel or cloth onto the stain to remove excess oil from the surface. 

Cover the stain with baking powder, cornstarch, or talc to draw the oil out and wipe it away. 

Need to know some more tips before starting your pegging session? Here’s a full beginner's guide. 

Safer alternatives 

Water-based lubricants - The safest and most versatile lubricant for a pegging session, water-based lube will not damage silicone or rubber dildos, and they work safely with condoms. 

Example products: K-Y Jelly, Durex Play Feel, and Sliquid Organic. 

Silicone-based lubricants - For a much longer-lasting effect than water-based products, silicone-based lubes are great to use with latex condoms and glass, metal, or plastic dildos. 

Do not use this type of lubricant with silicone dildos because it will degrade and dissolve the toy. 

Example products: Uberlube Luxury Lubricant, Pjur Original, and ID Millennium.

Book a pegging/strap-on escort.

Now that you fully understand the risks of using natural oils in your pegging meeting, browse the finest strap-on escorts London has to offer and book today. 



If you’ve found the right mistress for you, you can book her services by filling out the online booking form. 

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